Like me, you're new here. Look around at some of these threads and while you do that, you'll obtain some great advice and links I'm sure. I know I did. In the mean time, looking at what you said and given we're in the same boat currently (atleast in a similar boat), this thought crossed my mind while I read your first post.
You're here right? I mean, you're on this site and you're activly participating in looking for ways and tips to get it under control. To me, even though at times I view it as a small victory, that in itself is a victory. You should consider that a positive IMO. The focus now should be on how to keep you interested, and then committed to quiting.
1. Early stages of being interested - <check>
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