2manyears wrote:
i always thought if it were me i would not want everyone to throw me away, i would want someone to love me enough to stick by me no matter what. i did that for him for many years.
I can totally relate to that!
tnw
then we come to realize that our love and help(enabling) is helping them stay on drugs, and destroying our lives as well.
I don't think this kind of love is true love, it is a selfish love that satisfies us and relieves guilt and other issues we have within ourselves.