Leem
You have to remember his disease in not about you at all its about him. If love could stop an addict there would be very few of them if any at all . My A gets depressed because he knows he is hurting himself and his family and he cannot stop. It is sad to watch and the hard part is letting them come to terms with it on their own. Just like my A cant loose weight for me I have to do it for myself, I have to want it, I have to reach out and get help for it myself, and no matter how bad he wants to he cannot do anything and I wish like hell he could see that. You H has to be do the same to get better and be happy . Bless you and I will pray for you.
Rose