I'm not in AA but I think it's important to try and divorce people from the programme -
Human beings are fallible for sure, but from your post I'm not sure whether your beef is with the programme or some of the people in it.
There's other ways to stay sober for sure - there's a lot of methods in action even here at SR - but I think I'd like to be clear on where exactly my dissatisfaction lies before I made any big decisions?
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