Welcome to the SR family!
Stick around and make yourself at home.
I recommend reading in the stickies - area at the top of the forum page - as they contain some of our stories and loads of wisdom.
I encourage you to post as much as needed. It helps to discuss with folks who understand what you are going through.
I'm sorry for the reasons that brought you here, but glad to see you are making choices to take care of yourself. Ending toxic relationships is something healthy we do for ourselves.
I had to go NC with my addict. NC means No Contact. No calls, no texts, no emails. It wasn't to punish the addict, it was to protect myself from being drawn back into the drama.
I used the time of NC to focus on my needs and what I wanted out of my one precious life.