Oliver is my life and I will do whatever is necessary no matter how hard.
hi and welcome kerry-
glad you are here. here we talk about the 3 C's....you didn't cause it, you can't cure it, and you can't control it.
i sense that you feel that detaching will make him come to his senses. it might, it might not.
i am afraid you are underestimating how insiduous this disease is. the addict will get help when they decide to and there is absolutely nothing you can do about that.
i hope you stick around and learn and read and please consider going to alanon.
alcohol doesn't have to win but it normally does. please accept that.
naive