My AH has never been violent before and I don't think he will be now. He has a bad temper and at worst he slams his hand down on the table or thumps a wall but that is about it.
I could have written that two hours before my AXH threatened to kill me and our children.
And I would have thought anyone who advised me to have an emergency escape plan was out of their minds.
Please, please be safe. Carry the number to a women's shelter in your cellphone. Things can escalate in a hurry, and most women are harmed between the time they've told their husband/boyfriend it's over and the time they leave.