Best, it's so helpful to have a guys point of view here! My AH, sober two months, also thinks "ok, I quit drinking, I wont cheat on you anymore, get over it". But its so much harder for me to trust. I'm trying, but it will take longer for him to earn my trust than he thinks it should, and he has a problem with that. Ive tried to explain that when hurt piles upon hurt it takes awhile for it to come off, women are different from men. He's very impatient with me on this issue. I hope it doesnt ruin what we've accomplished in the last 60 days. It truely is one day at a time for me.