Some actions are. Some actions are not.
Am I really a true friend if I just say "Okay. Listen... newsflash... I am your best friend 1st, but I am in love with you... so I can't do this anymore. It hurts ME too much".
Why does he do **** like that? Is he trying to tell me that he really does ONLY want to be friends? So confused. (ahhhh. he is such a douchebag, sometimes!)