Originally Posted by
Chino 
Before addiction entered your life, what would you have said or thought if you heard someone say that? Please consider more sessions with your therapist and more 12 step meetings. You've been traumatized terribly and, in true codie fashion, I want to snatch you up and rescue you from the insanity.
My heart hurts for you
I admit I have made AH attend events in the past, even when he wasn't quite right, because I didn't want to field questions about where he was/worry when he was home alone during these times.
My FIL and MIL have done the same thing, and forced him to attend events as well. My FIL thankfully cancelled our reservations for this trip (I just spoke with him).