I agree with the others HF - so what if you said yes previously?
I used to think *so* much of other people...I never wanted to let anyone down or have them mad at me...
I was hurting myself with the choices I made - even tho I knew they were bad for me, I put other people ahead of my own welfare again and again.
That had to stop.
Hang in there Orbea - glad you feel better Kam
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