Orbea, while your MIL may be difficult all the time for.all.i.know,.keep.in.mind grief makes.people act extra.needy and kind of crazy. I am just starting to recognize.myself. And at the time.no.one in the family knew what the heck to.do with me, rude and angry and irrational.i.was. Anyway, whatever is going to happen, u will face it soberly!!