So I have toddler boy yelling DADDY realizing that daddy hasn't been around. The wake is tomorrow and the funeral is on Saturday. I asked him if he could fly home Sunday and he didn't want to talk about it. Apparently MIL wants to have DH drive 18 hours here with them leaving Monday. Wth. That means they win't get here till we'd, which would make 8 days of no daddy. When I mentioned him flying out Sunday I found out through yes and no questions ( his parents were present) that MIL was mad he was coming home Sunday. Wtf he ain't married to her. Deep breaths Orbea, deep breaths!