((Laney)))- I'm glad you're working on your exit plan. What I do when someone is saying one thing, my gut or their actions are saying something else is just say "hmm" and keep doing what I'm doing or walk away.
I admit, there are times my mouth still speaks before my brain thinks, but in my case, people who know me, know that when I say "hmm" it's either the end of the conversation or I'm not going there.
One of the tools I learned from here, btw
Hugs and prayers,
Amy