Originally Posted by
nodaybut2day 
And maybe, knowing this, he doesn't give a flying F...
You're on your way out, right? So what's your exit strategy?
When school is out in May I am going to move to my moms 4 hours away. I have been saving money updating my resume and have talked to my older kids about it. My mom has agreed to let us stay with her and my stepdad until we are on our feet. My stepdad has even offered to buy me a house and possibly has found me a job. My AH will not know when I leave. He will be out of town for job reasons around that time. I just need to talk to my boss and put in my notice. Pack what I want and leave the rest. Get a lawyer.....still working on that one.
I have left him once before when we was younger with one child and one on the way. Unrelated to drugs and alcohol. Maybe??? I don't know now looking back. It was the hardest thing I ever done. I probably wouldn't have gone back to him then if I hadn't been pregnant. I blame hormones...lol