It isn't so much of me wanting him to see the errors in his ways. He knows and I could talk until I am blue in the face. It is just when he acts like he is being such a good boy. He made the comment yesterday of how all he has to do is set his mind to it and he can do anything and he decided he was going to be and stay sober. I didn't even comment on that one. But, I wanted to look at him and say switching your DOC does not make you sober.
No he isn't in AA or anything. He claims he doesn't need it because he doesn't have a problem. I have been to 2 AL-Anon meetings so far. That is still an issue with him. We fight about that often. I am reading getting them sober and the new codependency. I am on here almost daily. Lots and lots of reading.