Anvilhead, he has asked for my help and support and has thanked me repeatedly for being so understanding and supportive. He calls me frequently to talk about the changes he's going through and the progress he's made. This is about him and I realize that more and more each day. I've been hurting over this as I didn't even know this was a problem for him and it blindsided me. I'm willing to do and be what he needs and help him when he asks for it. I've offered my support and assistance but I'm not going to push. He knows that I'm here if he needs anything.