He also said that he's going to go through so many changes that when he is ready for ANY relationship again that we might not feel the same about each other. I understand and accept the positive changes he's going to be making and I'm working on making some of my own but I'm getting discouraged. I know he's going to have a new outlook and whatnot but I would like to believe that no matter what improvements we make during this time that the people we fell for are still going to be there..I'm getting really confused.
Found some Al-Anon meetings in my area though and I'm planning on attending. Whether it's as friends, more than friends, or whatever, I want to know what he's going through and I want to be informed enough to be supportive in the right ways.