Hi HF, I wonder (and get scared) of the same thing. I understand about the b-day parties & showers. Most showers I've been too served mimosas, wine or bloody marys or some spectacular punch. and the b-day parties were usually BBQ's and had beer, wine or something along the lines.
I agree with HappyHappySober, I'm a total rubberneck & can't wait to watch people in rare form at some summer events we will be attending this year. and guess what? One of the morons stumbling around won't be me! Won't my Mother-in-law be pleased? lol...