I need to learn to be assertive, not one of my stronger suits. I have always been afraid of hurting people's feelings and it is easier for me to end a relationship with a man, no explanations.
When it comes to women, this is a first. I was dissed many years ago by a female friend I held dear to me and she did it in an insidiously gradual way. She stopped returning my calls and invited everyone to her parties but not me. When I found out about this I felt extremely hurt and humiliated. The process left me wondering and hurting. Our mutual friends were put in a position of secrecy.
I know how it feels and the woman I need to sever ties with is very fragile but puts up an aggressive front, yet another facet of her personality I dislike.
I would be doing her a favour as well by cutting her off.