Thank you wicked,
Yes, I'm keeping quiet and keeping my intuitive antena up high. This strategy keeps them wondering "hmm is she up to anything".
And yes, she's threated to keep Lexy away from me because I didnt' bend to her way and she kept her at home for one weekend. The next weekend Lexy called and said "are you coming to pick me up nanna". Of course I said yes, I'll be there in few minutes. And I didn't bring up the past scenario.
She is slowly getting the picture that I'm in charge of this relationship of mother/daughter and not her. It's been quite trying but I'm learning more and more to set and KEEP my boundaries even with her threats.
She knows damn well there's nobody that loves that little girl more than I but I will NOT show her my weakness when she tries to use her as emotional blackmail.
Thanks again
