I am so sorry Lexy is dealing with this trauma.
Remembering my times spent under a bed, or in a closet trying to keep myself and 3 siblings quiet.
I am one of those people who wants to DO something, right now, for the kids.
But, that is usually not the best idea, because my ideas tend to go along the lines of your ideas. I don't go to the house and threaten anyone, (when drunk well.....) I usually make a few quiet phone calls.
Find out your rights as a grandparent. Become the perfect example of loving caring grandmother. Has she kept Lexy from you before to hurt you?
Be calm now, wannabe cop got the message and so did your daughter.
Now is time for information, reflection and meditation on how to keep Lexy happy and safe. You are a smart woman, you will do this.
Beth
Thank you for the lovely iris, my favorite flower in my favorite color!
:ghug3!