Absolutely...it appalls me that I used to put up with the drunken rants and name calling.
I don't miss it a bit!!!
He does not do that...not since he sought recovery.
I just think he doesn't even realize what he says....is demeaning and inappropriate to say to someone you supposedly love.
I mean if I said to my mom... you only talk to talk, not about anything of importance...in a conversation in which we were trying to fix our relationship....that would hurt her AND in me saying such a thing...I would NOT be trying to fix it..but get the upper hand by throwing zingers...
am I wrong?
I don't know.
What do I get from this?
I think sometimes that I just have been here so long I'm afraid to go.