Yep, I feel it was a mistake to post.
The people that do know, know that it's a touchy thing for me. Which is why I regret posting it. I really was trying to post to just them. Stupid, in retrospect.
And yes, I think FB is fair game too.
To justhadenough: She's the only one pushing, no one else is. They've all high-fived me. I do have some control, I can delete the entire thread or any one post. Good point about trusting her and having her tell others, because she most definitely will - it's an assumption I have to make.
Thanks - keep 'em coming. I think I'll have to ponder this one awhile.