He is going to NA and has not used as far as I know. He's even started taking the vitamins I lay out for him. His addiction has given him cancer, chronic liver disease and diabetes.
We don't have health insurance but signed up for free counseling through one of the university's in our area. We are waiting to here back from them. He seems to think marriage is a dance just like his addiction but has this idea that somehow it will get better but doesn't seem to know what that requires.