Quacking from enabler MIL. "xAH didn't have any problems at all until he met you". SURRRRRREEEE!
This comes from the same woman who told me for years that I "expecte too much" from her baby (yup, used that word). When I'd point out that all I expected was not to be lied to and not to be accused of everything under the sun just bc I asked him to help out and be a partner as he vowed to me, she'd get quiet.
In the end she was absolutely right. I did expect too much. He is capable of giving nothing, taking everything and thinks the world owes him more than the rest of us. I wish I'd told her years ago she was right and just walked away from all of them far sooner than I did. Funny how perspective changes. I spent years trying to convince her that I did not expect too much bc I heard that statement as an accusation. Instead, I should have seen it as a statement of fact about how little he was able to give and agreed and moved on.