What to do...
First, let me say that I'm firm in my resolve about leaving, not even considering going back. Don't worry.
The past few days, AH has been calling me wanting to talk, basically saying that he doesn't understand what he did, or why I don't want to be married to him anymore. He's saying this all "happened so fast" and he wants to talk.
I know that this will be yet another of the same conversation we usually have.
I know that if he doesn't understand, or didn't see this coming, he wasn't paying attention to anything I've said to him in the last 2 years or more.
The problem is, that when I drop DS off for visitation, or pick him up from visitation, AH will basically hold DS hostage until he's had enough of the round and round conversation... holding on to him until he's done talking at me.
Any advice?