Originally Posted by
Terminally Unique 
You mean all that passive-aggressive Orwellian Doublespeak? It results from the pathologization and attempted suppression of anger, which in and of itself is not necessarily bad. Try starting a thread called
"cherish your anger" or
"anger is a gift" on a recovery forum if you want to see what I mean.
I was feeling very negative earlier and was pondering all the catch-phrases that I see and hear. I instantly found myself in a "shame spiral"