I know that I have options and your right 3 months isn't very long. The only reason I haven't chosen another option yet is because he and I do have a very deep connection. I will let him try this experiment his way but I have already told him I will leave if I need to and I will.I've been mistreated in relationships before and I refuse to be a victim. What kills me is I watched him every morning throw up if he didn't get vodka into his system ASAP and I've also set on his bedside every night that he was in detox and watched him go through withdrawals. I will not repeat either phase no matter how much I love him. Maybe this makes me heartless idk.