Update :)
Hi all.... getting caught up on my reading around here.
As you all know I left my ex RABF in early November.. He's doing really well, not that I hoped or expected that, so really it is a pleasant surprise. Still in sober living, no slowing on the sponsor, meetings, step work. We've started to talk more, seeing each other sometimes. I refuse to get back together with him, and said I would consider where we were at when he got 6 months, but obviously he is impatient.
Enough about him... hah.
I got a commitment finally at my alanon meeting... cant stop going now!! Still trying to find sponsor, but picked up a new sponsee in AA, helping me get out of my head. I moved to the new place, a fresh start with rent I can finally afford without him with a roommate that is normal and doesnt bully me like the last girl (also in recovery).
Just wanted to check in... instead of check out and sink back into old patterns.
I hope all the newbies here are finding their way peacefully : )