Thank you all so much for the support, tommorow is his arraignment but i have already spoken to him on the phone and told him i will not be posting bail, in fact i will be letting the court know that he is a drug addict as well thats about all i can do . I do so desperately want to have my life back , the one where I laughed and felt good everything has been doom and gloom and altough i understand this may not be his bottom he sure is on his way what i have decided is that im not letting him take the rest of us with him, so yes kindeyes I do want to come with you