Lonestar, this is the bottom. Believe me as I have been there. Don't bail him out. He will choose. My son was in jail for 4 months for Grand Theft (stealing from us) and now in a court ordered rehab and 3 years probation as a first offense. He will have to find a job and work on where he wants to live when he leaves rehab. I love him with all my heart, and I pray daily he decides to stay clean. You must get out of the way and let go for any HP influence.
Hugs and prayers to you and your family,
Teresa