juicica, welcome to you, glad you are here.
In my opinion I would stay away from trying to get him to a meeting, he is a grown man, it's his choice to drink or not, and to go to AA or not.
You, as a grown woman, it's your choice whether to tolerate his drinking, set your own boundaries, and work on your own issues, I think the biggest mistakes you could make would be to enable him and mother him.
I hope you will work on yourself, I have had excellent luck with counseling, and I know Al-anon has been a hug help for many here.
Best of luck to you.
Bill