Hi Tawny
Glad you are here, there is a lot of understanding and support here.
All you can do right now is take care of you, unfortunately until your spouse decides he has had enough and wants to take actions to stop his drinking there is very little you can do to help him get sober.
So keep hanging out here, reading the posts and asking questions.
Others will be along who can offer more help.
My name is Kel, I am an alcoholic grateful for another day sober.