Old 01-18-2012, 01:56 PM
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No, ambivalence is the essence of the Addictive Voice / Beast. It is when the rational self allows the AV/Beast to engage it in an "argument", as though the argument has merit, that ambivalence results.

"Genuinely wanting to stop" is just a euphemism for that argument. Until someone actively decides to become a non-drinker or non-drug-user, the desire to quit is only a thesis and not a decision.

You are describing the Addictive Voice very well. Coming onto a forum implies interest, not intent.

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