My wife is not supportive
I'm frustrated and looking for advice, support, and encouragement. I told my wife that I am going to go to AA. She reacted by saying, "you don't have a problem. I've been through this (with her ex) and you don't have a problem. I didn't sign up for this when I married you."
She was attacking me! It seems like she's embarrassed to be married to a guy who goes to AA.
It seems so backwards. In many instances of which I'm aware, the wife forces the husband to go to AA (or some other type of help depending on the problem) or else.
I have a problem with alcohol. She says, "Nobody thinks you have a problem.". I say, "I say I have a problem and I dot want it to get worse and cause more problems than what it already causes."
Please help me understand how to deal. Do I just put my foot down and go anyway? Do I search for some other form of help?
Any input is appreciated. Thank you.