Hey Girls,
And, again, a big THANKS for more wisdom. Smoke, I love your analogy of holding the heavy object, it is perfect and exactly how I feel until I come here!I forgot to add another "heavy" that I was holding, my A's daughter is a crack and heroin addict, sooooooo, it gets "curioser and curioser" (to borrow the words from "Alice in Wonderland").. He is a bull about dealing with her addiction and the sh--t it deals everyone around her and is oh-so-strong with the tough love.... But he does not talk to himself the way he talks to her,LOL....go figure....Well, I just thought I would add that tidbit and see if any of you wonderful human beings have any comment!I love these boards and will keep coming back......... (((((((((((HUGS AND LOVE TO ALL WHO SHARE HERE))))))))))))))))), Jamy