Originally Posted by
Freedom1990 
What has helped me immensely are Alanon, the book "Codependent No More" by Melody Beattie, and individual therapy for myself.
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I'm so sorry for your heart ache! I highly recommend Alanon also and the book "The Courage to Change". I'm not the parent of an addict, but the wife of a RAH and I must say that nothing helped until I let go and just worked on me and my life.
Praying for you, your daughter and your family!