Originally Posted by
dvm2015 
Also, If it helps, I have NO experience with alcoholism, and only recently found out about al-anon but don't see the point now that were broken up. He is 20 years old and I am 23.
IMHO, AlAnon is not about repairing your relationship with him, but about repairing yourself. When you meet another active addict, you will break up after two dates, not two years.