Originally Posted by
cynical one 
Physical abuse is a deal breaker. But, heroin in a 2 ½ year olds bathroom…next time she could be dead…sorry, that’s not something I could forget, forgive, or ever get past. Addicts don’t do that…sociopaths do.
I am not as experienced at recovery as Cynical or Anvil or Outtolunch. Looking back I wish I took their advice. With that being said...heroin in a 2 1/2 year olds bathroom...he needs to work on his recovery and you need to work on your own recovery. Once he has been clean for a length of time and you have worked your recovery then make a decision on what to do with an "us". What to expect? Expect nothing this way you are not disappointed. Concentrate on you and your child.