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Old 01-03-2012, 08:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Florence View Post
One of the things that's really bothering me today is the immaturity. It's a truism that As stop their emotional development when they start using because their answer to every stressor is drug and alcohol abuse. This is something that I've mulled over for a long while. So I see him parked on the couch, making jokes about Beavis and Butthead (damn whoever brought back that show), asking me for money to go buy a coke at the gas station (I took over the bank account exclusively), or whatever, and I want to kick him in the butt and tell him to find a new mom.
OMG! That explains it! I have always wondered how come my 40+ husband was/is stuck in his early 20s! And maybe a week ago, when I was nagging, my AH accidentally called me "MOM"! And that little episode was my trigger. I started working on myself. WOW, I can't believe it. And my AH loves Beavis and Butthead too!
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