I think there's no day like today. He has the tools for recovery - IMO, he's got to learn how to use them when things are rough. For me, real recovery began when my world was falling apart and I had to USE those tools and not pick up.
This is what I was thinking. I'm having a hard time with this since I don't have an Al-Anon meeting available to me and everyone else in our lives are supreme enablers.
My first marital demand will be for him to stop filling up the Netflix queue with horror movies. (Kidding! I kid.
)