I'm in one of those situations in my relationship right now, bay.. I have a wife in denial about alcohol, and I've decided to embrace that I have a problem and stop.. it's a tough road ahead, but right now, it's life or death decision time.. I choose life, and sobriety above all else. I love my wife dearly but if she can't be supportive, and isn't ready to open up about her own issues, then I can't be there for her, it's too hard beating this problem to worry about everyone elses -- and don't get me wrong, if she would admit she had a problem, I would be with her every step of the way to her own recovery. What I can't do, is continue to hang out with her at bars and clubs.
Congrats for being here and staying strong.
