Thank you all for your responses. I know that I cannot subject my daughter and myself to that life. I am going through a lot of hurt and anguish as reality smacks me in the face. Finding out everything that you have known has been a lie is very painful. I know that it is not my fault that I have been lied to and misled but I'm having a hard time not feeling guilty about putting my daughter through this. Letting her become attached to someone that has such a problem. I know that we will get through this. Thank you all for your support. I greatly need it and appreciate it.