I'm having a lot of trouble with that, myself, right now.. I have fun, but not wild crazy party fun when I don't drink. I feel great about it the next day, but.. I just don't think I'm a fun person when I don't drink.. It's tough to get past.
Give it time SCD - It took some time for me to learn who sober me was again, and even more time than that to be comfortable with sober me.
I can party anytime anywhere now - but honestly? I don't often feel the urge anymore.
I've changed and my idea of fun has changed too - that might have something to do with me being in my mid 40s tho
I'm sure you'll hear from some sober party animals here tho
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