How interesting Programmer
As I read your post, which I loved by the way, I kept thinking of Sheldon in The Big Bang Theory.
To be honest I was much more inclined to do things for people when I was drinking. I was far more generous, felt more sympathy for people, now I really don't care as much.
Washing everyone's cup would have been something I would have done when I was young as part of my people pleasing persona and no point if they didn't know it was me that did it and boy would I be resentful if they didn't get around to washing my cup in return.
The me without alcohol is the person that was not really generous at all as I had suspected all along.
Keep posting
love it
CaiHong