Ott makes a good point. Quitting your involvement with AA might be a great and positive thing if you quickly get active in another program.
If those who care about you see you heavily involved and staying sober any complaints will quickly die down. If you instead continue drinking you're likely to get a ton of flack from them. It does sound as if you need to be at least willing to talk with someone before you drink. If you're not that willing then where you go and what you do won't change a thing.
But, by going elsewhere you'll gain some insights regarding the importance for an alcoholic to actually do things that work that they may not want to do very much and be able to pick up some other information that may become useful.
So no matter what happens, leaving AA can turn out to be a positive in some ways.