Hi HTBS,
I think it is a good idea to go to some AA meetings. I'm glad you thought of it. Yes, you are right the madness needs to stop.
They tried banning alcohol in America, it was called prohibition, the only good thing that came out of that was some very cool gangster movies. I watched a fascinating 3 part documentary called Prohibition last month, great old black and white footage.
Sorry I digress.
Get your point though, most socialising seems to be around alcohol.
I have a strong feeling that you can do it. Get into a program. I use this forum and AA to stay sober.
Looking forward to further posts from you.
All the best
CaiHong