Hello TCB5568, and pleased to "meet" you
Originally Posted by
TCB5568 
... I was scared to make a big deal out of it and that was 2 days ago now...
No worries, you are perfectly right in being scared and not wanting to make a big deal of it. The last thing you want is to get your husband upset and have him act any worse than he already does.
I sent you a PM earlier. A PM is a "Private Message", you can see it on the upper right corner of your screen. It is just below the big "SoberRecovery Community" banner, right below where it says "Your last visited...." It says "Private Messages" and if you click on those words you will see the message I sent you.
Mike
Moderator, SoberRecovery