Consider practicing serenity...practicing gratitude. Practice giving thanks for what surrounds you in your life, and who surrounds you. Practice prayer, reflection, quietude. Tis the season. Practice self care. Be gentle. Massage your heart.
Practice turning it over to your higher power...you do not know yet what life has in store for you.
I know that I will send messages of good will and cheer to my ex's family, who I like and feel warmth toward. That is MY relationship with THEM. So that is what I, MYSELF, will do.
I will pray for me, for my ex, and for all who are in my life, and for all those who suffer.
I will practice cheer, calm, and sweetness.
I will notice the quiet.
I will appreciate the lessening of drama.
Anything that you mentioned sounds as though you would still be doing it on your own.
(Except maybe visiting his family.)
Visiting your family.
Making your resolutions and plans for a fulfilling, happy, new year ahead.
Stay present within each moment.
One Day at a Time.
Peace, Prayers & Blessings your way!
Leslie